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Saturday, August 26, 2006

maintaining a r/s

had been faithfully blogging!=)
today is my REST day!

well some veiws to share with u guys and hopfully you guys can share your views too?

how to maintain a relationship well?
i often wonder how can people go through like 10 years of countership and still maintain a very good relationship btw e/o. Do they ever feel confused between being with each other because its just a habit or it is really love then bond them together?in this case, communication and trust comes to play a huge role in a relationship.

haha i had never been in such a longterm relationship before so i dont really know how it feels like.
but 1 thing for sure is that it isnt easy to maintain such a relationship. i had seen that there will be 'tests' for your relationship in like 2 years, 7 years and 10 years?its a period either you make it or break it nehz

hmm when you start to feel like something is amiss in a relationship, i guess its time to do something out of the non-routine base thing that you and your dear will do together?
u know,spice things up a little to bring the honey moon period back!.
of course this must be done in a 2 way traffic. it cannot be a guy who keep doing it or vice versa nehz

here are some ideas that i feel will be interesting nehz

1) review the memories you guys had together. do a scrapbook that records when is the 1st meeting date, what was the most memorable experiences you guys went through and the 1st hug, 1st hand holding, 1st kiss, 1st ....u know haha

2) do something that you guys nv do before eg: canoeing, treakking, night cycling something fun!

3) go back to the 1st dating place that you guys had dinner together?and had a meal there.

4) go on a picnic to botanic gardens!there are lunch time concerts there is i dont remember wrongly. prepare a basket of your dear's fave food. it will b nice for the guy to make sandwich for her dear haha

5) go to the ZOO,night safari, cablecar rides,the luge!!...But this may need abit of money nehz. its like enjoy the feeling of being "tourists"

6) surprises , surprises, surprises..drop by his/her hse with his/her fav food/stuff!

7) reserve a day to be spend with each other only. rent all the VCDS and just slack at the sofa to watch together with DIY popcorns and Pizzas(that kind you just pop in oven and you can eat it?whaha ok this is for lazy ppl like me k?can cook togehter if u wan haha)

8) burn a cd of the fav songs of your dear and pass to her with a stalk of flower/chocolate?

9) how can we ever forget notes?when is the lastime you wrote a note showing your appreciation for what he/she had done for you and how much you meant to him/her?

10) give e/o space to miss e/o. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. (Xin: haha remember this?i make your hair stand whaha)
S P A C E is very important nehz. more often it has become a habit to meet everyday to have a meal together that sometimes we just took stuff for granted.

haha i am so cranky right?come up with all these..you guys can tag and come up with more stuff to share!

oya! read men are from mars, women are from venus by john gray!
its really a good book for you guys who are in relationship or for ppl who wants to know more abt the opp gender =)


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