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Iris Lee ![]() Create Your Badge ~ * L o v E s * ~ GOD ChocolaTeS(DARK) Beach, Sun SaladS Bangkok ZZZzzzz Retail Therapy Australia! POCKY HahahaHa family n friends Dogs Kangaroos Kolar Giraffe Ben n Jerry's! Meiji JOgging Photography! Pink Monster ~ * I Wish... * ~ Happiness to see the 5 wonders and beyond Career Healthy always! more than 24 hrs a day USA ben n jerrys factory TOUR you to be happy always!=) travel around the globe! *Loves
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Friday, September 22, 2006
Friday! la la la!
YEAH!
i had it done and over with for my assignments!now i pray that my hard work will pay off! it was tough working through the night till the morning. u know my biological clock will just start to slow down after 2am.haha. but i am blessed to have you to help me sooo much. if it wasnt for you, i would get through that night feeling the same way as i do now....*smiles* for you! MID SEM BREAK next week! what an 'enjoyable' break that i will be having with a project and 3CAs coming up after the break. not to mention the piles of readings that i have to blow the top dust away! haha but i am glad that its a week's break instead of the 5 day thingy! and i wanna finish my VCDs of ENGINE and ART of SEDUCTION!!!!!not to forget to sleep!ZZZZz ____________________________________________________________ just some thoughts on friendship: we have met so many people in our lifes but i am not sure if you had feel the same way as i do? its just that for a certain period of time, you will feel soo close to the person or people that we can share all the stuff and just speak our minds. The kind of comfort that you found in the person is just feels so good! but as time goes by with lesser contact, perhaps a few sentences of 'how are you' in months time, the distance furthern and the next time when you make an effort to meet up with the person, the comfort feeling is gone. strangeness and awakardness just sank in.then slowly, we will just lose contact. yet on the other side of the coin, there are just friends whom you can dont contact or just plain MSN for months and yet maintain the bond. you can laugh and tell them your problems, share uor world views on stuff and just crap. the feeling is so comfortable. You can only meet up once in a few months time over dinner and yet you feel the same closeness always! how do we classify such friendships under? low mainntainance vs high maintianance ? or the different untility of friendships? to me i always feel that true friendship are low mantainace. yes you do need to maintain but not so effortly do it eg: spending time with each other every day. let the person know that you will be there for her when you need can le! of course this is based on an assumption that you never take thier friendship for granted and cherish the bonds you have . i vaguely remember the 3 levels of friendship that i learn in B camp planning 1) friendship forge upon because of a common objective of work or stuff 2) friendship for leisure purpose(eg:basketball, movies, dota, maple" 3) the friendship form truely because you can relate to him/her its something like that lah. forget the actual words that wen xiang share with us le! i want to be the third kinda level low maintaince friend to you guys!hahaha kk gota go sch le!long day! LOOKING FORWARD to the ECP GAthering! -Count blessings, not worries, be happy ~
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