life's candies

wee~ i m in my desired holidays now!
yupz!
and saw this m&M dark choc in giant and i just grab from the shelf
could say its a little treat from you =)
haha agnes bought me a packet too and thanks gal!
its the thoughts that counts! haha
its yummy!!!

and i love my macro function on my sony cam!
take till the candies look so yummy! haha
you guys should try out this new limited edition favour!

had a super bz weekend last week.
Sun is religion day ending off with tuition with my kid!
13 hrs running ard singapore!
and guys! i found a shorter way to go tg le!
take bus/mrt to woodlands and take 161 and u will reach abt 15 mins!
just that u gota walk in but it definately shorter than our ususal 1.5hrs!
=)

had been listening to many stories
recalling the days of my puberty years,
i dont remember facing so many problems and saddness like teens nowadays yeah?
seasons and i were still dancing in the rain and giggling about the crushes
hmm anws this post is for u guys!

gona talk about relationships (BGR):

Disadvantages of being attached during age 13-16

• Smaller social circles
• No financial capability to go on dates eg: movies. shopping ( you are using your parents $ to date ur partner sia!)
• No much freedom to go out often (due to studies, parental control)
• Distraction to studies(esp when u quarrel with ur other half!)

Advantages of being attached during age 13-16

• companionship in school, studies and life( erm i feel that u can get it from your friends lah)
• experiences? have a better idea of what you look out for in a partner nehz

Advantages of singlehood during age 13-16

• you can make as many friends as you want
• experience life! go on camps without having to ring ur partner every single night when u dun even haf time to sleep
• concentrate on getting through the big O with flying colors! no distractions leh
• you wont get heart broken and sian easily with those quarrrels
• More time to go youth group to LY! hahaha i mean if u ahve so much time to spare, come join in the activities like biao yi zhu and CO

haha i am thinking from a perspective of a teenager lah! its not that jiejie dun advise you guys to have r/s but i though the best time to start one would be after the O levels

yes i know she is soo cute,

yes i know you have feelings for him

yes i know your heart beats non stop when u r close to him/ her

BUT wait , why dont u guys take your time to understand each other better as friends, very close friends, brothers and sisters? enjoy the moments of secretly looking at each other, guessing how she/he felts about u and just u know, the sweet admirance stage which may bring you guys closer?

going"steady" is not just i like u and u like me. its more than just going to sch everyday and to the library to study after sch, sms-ing each other always. Its about providing support, encouragement and putting each other first and ACCEPTING her/him for who she/he is.

so in order to accept, you gota understand each other 1st. not just basic understanding of each other preferences and stuff but rather each other objectives and goals in life nehz! is her thinking similar to u? or there is a crash in character?

thats y we see people always break up with 性格不和 as a reason nehz!

dont rush k understand each other well!

ok what happens if u r in a r/s(relationship) now that may be giving u probs?

• stay optimistic
• talk and communicate with each other! this is super important in a r/s. arguements will bring each other closer, not further.
• learn to let go if its not meant to be nehz. letting go is a form of loving someone as well for as long as he is happy, u will be happy.
• speak out! find someone to talk to. don ever keep everything to yourself

yeah and drugs and secret societies are NOT the way out to run away from your problems k!

AND! i know its boring but STUDIES FIRST!!

Please dont get too involve in BGR and then get Fs for your papers k!

haha ok! just my thoughts lah!tag if u have got any advises for our brothers and sisters!

- Learn to love yourself before you love others-

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