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how many times have we said what we never meant?
hmm especially when:
1) When you are really angry
oman, at such situation, it is just so hard to control what u never meant to say at all
and it just happens so fast!
2) When you are hiding something from someone
3) When u dont know what you want
4) When u are just entertaining someone
5) When u feel paiseh and you have to say something nice to someone/ to accept someone's kind gesture
and recently i realised that
there is such a thin line between
taking initiative to do the right stuff and to analyse what is not meant to be said and do the right thing
eg:
A: do you want to eat kiwi?
B: oh no its ok. you go ahead
A: are you sure u dun 1?
B: ya i am fine thanks!
A: *put it in front* nah for u
B: oh tts nice, thank you!*beamS*
so yups,
being a straigth forward me,
i will take the "ya i am fine thank you" for the ans
and eat the kiwi myself
but then i realised that action of *put it in front* is impt!
it shows initiative adn the understanding of someone
and its something that i had pick up
and if i decide to skip it and eat the kiwi myself,
B may really want to eat but too paiseh to ask for
and B may also be too full to eat but dun wanna reject ur kind gesture!
aiyoo!
haha no worries, i am not directing at any1 at all!
its really a radom thought of mine
and no such example have happen in real life ok?
haha
its all about EQ!
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and have been chatting with my dearest mum on msn at night
my dad msn has a super funky email address yeah?
hahaa
haha really appreciate that she pick up modern technology just to stay in touch with me!
and she is so cute complaining how my dad is too busy to pak tou with her!
and this is what we chatted:
lee says:
i now alot of think dont now how to cook because you not at home and every body is not at home lee says:
i every day cooksoup
me: really ar?aiyoo mummy
lee says:
to eat
me:u must practice ok cos when i am back i wanna eat your vegies
lee says:
the two man eat so little veggies
lee says:
also throw away
HAHAHA!
the "2 man" refers to my dad n bro =)
although i am just away for few months,
but i realised that i am still a family girl after all
and i really miss my dear parents lots!
Despite their naggings and all
speaking about which
one of the culture difference between asians esp singaporeans and non asians lies in parents
the youths are expected to shift out of the house at the age of 18 years old
and it will be seen as a bad thing to live together with parents
so by the age of 18, you should be able to rent a place and move out to stay with friends
independance
which explains why they are more individualistic than we do
but then,
almost all of such countries eg: germany, france
have really good pension and healtcare scheme to support the old
i cannot imagine if in singapore, we were all to do the same thing
i think we will run out of land soon
and there will be tons of old folks along the road!
yups!
although it may sounds fun to move out and stay alone,
i feel that in long run,
you will still miss the warmth of the family
ok haha this is really some radom thoughts of mine!
to xin n wk: jiayous for ur attachment!you gals can do it!
to passer by: pls =). you are really grade A k?
to ling: time flies and ur dear will be back soon!