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    Saturday, June 05, 2010
    How to?

    How do we communicate/ teach someone to see from 2 sides of things?

    All conflicts arises due to 2 view different view points. 
    All essays needs 2 side thesis and anti thesis to score well.

    So how do i let another one know that i am referring to this side and the other side exist as well?

    When someone buys you a gift from overseas, instead of seeing that 
    "why did she buy this for me? i have no use for it."
    How do we let someone see the other view of i think its suits you and is my token. 
    Hope you appreciate it?

    As i was thinking about it, i came across this 5 love languages:
    • Words of Affirmation
      Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.
    • Quality Time
      In the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes your significant other feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.
    • Receiving Gifts
      Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday, anniversary, or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures.
    • Acts of Service
      Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.
    • Physical Touch
      This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive. 


      Everyone has a different language, after reading through and doing some quiz, My love language is words of affirmation. I feel that i am a little bit of all to feel loved. And i practice all 5 languages to my friends/ family to show that i love them! Maybe it is the difference in love language that makes it so hard to see different view points. To A, she may be a physical touch person but to B who give the gifts, she is showing receiving gifts.

      Still, it is really important to communicate the appreciation nicely to each other using different languages and  should never let B who give the gifts feel unappreciated.  

      What's your love language?
      The greatest satisfaction in life is in investing your life in the lives of others.
      -Dr Gary Chapman-

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